It’s my privilege this morning to share with you about our Lord’s teaching on love for enemies and peacemaking. This is a part of our sermon series on hard topics – and yes, it can be hard to love our enemies. For whatever reason God has allowed me to experience several really difficult enemies in our journey and I can testify to you that it’s a difficult path to walk. Although I can also testify that God always provides the strength and wisdom we need to do his will.
This is also a hard topic because of all the issues and questions it raises. It’s just not possible in one short presentation like I’m sharing today to address all of these. I was teaching a college class on this topic in Kenya in August and a student in the back – a large man with a booming voice – raised his hand every time I stopped for questions. And he asked really tough questions which led to some great conversations. And in this case by the end of the class we seemed to be on the same page. Likewise, I’m happy to have conversations with you to talk more about these things if you like. And I would love to hear where you’re coming from.
I want us to look briefly at two key passages this morning, and the first is –
Matthew 5:43-44
“You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I say to you, Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you.”
A couple of observations. First, things were different in the Old Testament. That’s not hard to see. And here is where we see that Jesus changes things for God’s people in the new covenant. “This is how things were, but I say to you . . .”
The Old Testament operated by “an eye for an eye.” If someone harms you, you can return harm to them in a proportionate way. But in our verses Jesus calls us to return good for harm, rather than harm for harm. He gives two examples – we are to love those who harm us (enemies are those who harm us) and we are to pray for those who persecute us.
A second observation is that the word “love” here means to do good to someone; to care for, bless and sacrifice for them; to act for their well-being. If we ask, “Does love ever allow us to hurt someone?” Well, in an extreme situation, without the right equipment and pain killers a doctor might need to saw off someone’s leg in order to save their life. And although this causes great pain and is violent it is done in the best interests of the person.
So yes, if someone comes to my house in order to hurt my family, I’m really clear that I can restrain or harm them to protect my family. This can be consistent with love if it’s done with regard also for my enemy’s well-being, in this case, stopping them from doing evil. I would also not use excessive force or vent my anger on them after they are stopped or otherwise express my hatred toward them. Rather, I believe, love would call me to be concerned about them. I will pray for the person and perhaps I will visit them in jail.
So yes, love for my enemy allows me to do this. But I’m also even more clear that love does not allow me to kill my enemy. There is no possible way that this is what is loving or good for the person. This is not caring for them or blessing them. This is not acting for their well-being. Love, of course, means much more than this. Not killing a person is the bare minimum of what love means.
Let me share with you a story about loving enemies: Thomas, who lived in Africa, was a follower of Jesus. But his neighbor hated Christians. One night this neighbor snuck over to Thomas’s hut and set the thatched roof on fire. Thomas awoke in time and was able to put the fire out, saving his family. This happened two more times.
On another night the neighbor once again tried to burn Thomas’s house down. This time it was windy and another neighbor’s house also caught on fire. Thomas’s hands and arms were severely burned putting out these fires. Other neighbors told the chief what was happening and the evil neighbor was put in jail.
The next day a visiting evangelist heard the story. She said, it’s good that this man was put in jail! Thomas replied, “I feel sorry for him.” Then they prayed for the man. Thomas prayed, “Lord, I wish that this man would become one of your children . . .. I pray that we will become brothers in Christ and will be able to preach to our tribe together.”
Two days later the evangelist visited the local prison and asked who might want to become a Christian. Thomas’s neighbor responded. She told him about Thomas’s burns and his prayer. The man cried and nodded, “Yes, one day we’ll do that together – preach to our tribe.” [They Loved Their Enemies, True Stories of African Christians, by Marian Hostetler. Scottdale, PA: Herald Press, 1988. Pages 87-89]
I don’t know what you think of this story. I confess Thomas was more patient with his neighbor than I would have been. But what if we all saw our enemies through the lens of such love – that our enemies might become Christians so that we could serve the Lord together.
Our second scripture is –
Matthew 5:9
“Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called sons of God.”
A couple of observations on this verse. First, peace or shalom is a rich and important theme in Scripture. It has to do with completeness and soundness in all areas of life. Peace equals well-being broadly defined. It involves abundant life, wholeness and blessing. More specifically peace has to do with right relationships with God and others. And when sin wrecks this, it has to do with God’s salvation and restoration of shalom.
A second observation is that in our verse Jesus identifies his followers with the term “peacemakers” or those who work for peace. Christians are defined as those who work for God’s peace in this broken world. We are to be agents of wholeness, blessing and well-being to both the individuals we encounter and the communities where God has placed us.
Let me share with you now a story about Christians being peacemakers: Ethiopia is a country made up of numerous ethnic/ cultural/ religious groups. And there is often armed conflict going on in the country. The Mennonite church in Ethiopia, the Meserete Kristos Church, is called upon by the government to work for peace in the midst of the brokenness and suffering of these conflicts. This is one such story.
In 2022 a peace training was done in the Dangur region, which had been experiencing violence and bloodshed for several years. The leader of the training was seeking to communicate that genuine love and humility help in building peace. He decided to use footwashing as an example of this. Two people came forward – a Muslim man and a Gumuz man.
The leader untied the Muslim man’s sandals and began to wash his feet, while he sat literally shaking from shock. Next, the leader went to the Gumuz man and washed his feet. Some people started screaming. Others stood up holding their heads with their two hands. While washing their feet the trainer said, “Let these feet change their ways today! Let these feet walk in the way of peace! Let these feet run for peace and make history.”
When he was done the participants returned to their seats. The group then reflected on what had just happened.
• They were shocked that a Christian did the lowly work of washing a Muslim’s feet.
• They were especially shocked that the leader had washed the Gumuz man’s feet because he was darker skinned than the rest and the object of racism because of this. This act communicated that the Gumuz people are worthy of dignity and respect.
After the training the Gumuz man, Dergu, went to a government official and told him about the transformation he experienced at the training. He wanted to do something that makes for peace. He asked for a gun and was given one. He went into the bush where the armed guerrillas were based. He met them and shared what happened to him. He was able to persuade five of them to lay down their arms and give up using violence to solve their conflicts.
After he taught these five people more about peace – he sent them out and they brought back fifteen more guerrillas. Within a year they brought back 850 armed guerillas. Gradually all armed groups in the district were convinced to surrender their weapons. And this spread to several other districts. [“Culturally Rooted Empowering Peacebuilding: A Case of Meserete Kristos Church’s Peacebuilding Approach in Ethiopia” by Mekonnen Gemeda, in Anabaptist Witness, April 2024, Mission and Peace in Ethiopia, excerpt, pp. 153-155]
Our convictions about loving enemies and peace may well exclude us from some things that our government might require of us. But as this story shows there are other ways that we can be both faithful to Jesus and useful to our communities in bringing healing and help.
Let me speak personally now as I bring things to a close. I choose to follow Jesus’s call to love and peace, not because God doesn’t use the government and its “eye for an eye” approach to suppress evil for now. God does. And he calls those who do this his “servants” (Romans 13:4). And we are to honor them (1 Peter 2:17). I choose love and peace because it’s the unique calling of Christians to display Jesus’s love and reconciliation to the world. This is our job. And if we don’t do it, who will?
I choose to follow Jesus’s call to love and peace, not because I’m naïve. I know how the world works. Those who are powerful often take what they want by force. I choose love and peace because more violence, even by the government which God uses – more harm will never fix this broken world we live in. It’s just a stopgap. It’s the love of Jesus that brings healing and hope to our world. Only this brings true peace.
I choose to follow Jesus’s call to love and peace, not because it’s easy. On a personal level it’s much more satisfying to strike out when harmed and to seek even more than “an eye for an eye.” I choose love and peace because when I was God’s enemy, he gave me his love and peace. And as one who has received such a precious gift, I know that I’m obligated to pass this grace along to my enemies as well.
I would like us to end with a congregational reading from Romans 12:14-21:
L: Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse them.
P: Rejoice with those who rejoice, weep with those who weep. Live in harmony with one another.
L: Do not be haughty, but associate with the lowly. Never be wise in your own sight.
P: Repay no one harm for harm, but give thought to do what is honorable in the sight of all. If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all.
L: Beloved, never avenge yourselves, but leave it to the wrath of God, for it is written, “Vengeance is mine, I will repay, says the Lord.”
P: To the contrary, “if your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink; for by so doing you will heap burning coals on his head.”
A: Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good. Amen.